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by Neil Wilson

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I first visited the Philippines in 2000 and helped lead a team of people to work with a church in iloilo. Little did I know that I would return seven years later to meet the love of my life (and now wife, Jifelane) whom I married in 2008.

After our first visit to the Philippines as a married couple in 2011, we were made aware of the availability of a plot of land on the island of Panglao, Bohol. It was a good time to buy, a really good location and a possible investment.

We hired a solicitor and after much red tape the title of the 1100m square plot in Dauis, Panglao became ours in 2015.

Before we even received the title for the land, the idea of using the land as a force for good was already stirring.

During a church service back in 2013 we were all given a pound (instead of putting money IN the collection box!). The challenge was to ask God what to do with the pound. I guess the idea was that the pound was like a seed that could be used to start something good. As we were praying, the word 'Shekinah' came to mind and I had a strong sense that we should start a new bank account with the pound. I felt that the money put in would eventually be used to do something special with the land we were buying.

The very next day, the school where I was working had an exchange visit to an inner city school in east London. The children were put into mixed groups and the first activity for our group was for the children to introduce themselves. There was one girl from the Philippines and her name was ... Shekinah! Hmmm!

In 2014, on our second visit to the Philippines as a married couple, I set about visiting a few places that cared for children to get an idea of what may be done on our land.

 

Visiting the Arms of Love orphanage in Bohol and talking with their social workers, I learned that there wasn't too much government support for children and families with disabilities such as Downs Syndrome and Cerebral Palsy. Later on in the trip, I visited Chosen Children's Village in Cavite and Philippines Cerebral Palsy Inc. in Manila. Both were inspirational and confirmed to me that we should do something for families with cerebral palsy children.

My initial thoughts were to start a charity and build a centre on our land where families with cerebral palsy children could come and receive a range of therapies and emotional and medical support.

Good ideas and plans often face trials, frustrations and obstacles. After the frustration of a long wait for the land's title, came our move to South Wales which was sadly followed by the illness and passing of my mother at the end of 2019. Next came Covid and plans for Bohol went on the back burner. Amazingly, this gave time for reflection and for God's plans to take shape. 

I kept in touch with Jessa Marmol (President of CPEFASG) and agreed to sponsor a family workshop in Bohol which coincided with our visit in April this year (2024). We did fundraisers and along with other donations we raised enough money to make it happen. It was great to meet Jessa and some of her team and as a charity we now are confident that working alongside CPEFASG is the way forward. We made great connections with some families in Bohol and look forward to develop the work there. We believe there's much more to come as we now have charitable status, trustees who share the vision and a growing group of committed supporters.

Currently, we're not planning to build a centre on the land, as sponsoring workshops and providing much needed resources is the way forward. We are also looking to build a relationship with the local CP communities, local service providers and other parties who have an interest. 

If what we're doing has sparked your interest and you feel you could help in any way please contact us. We would love to hear from you and for you to join us on this worthy adventure!

On behalf of all the directors,

Neil

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A Mother's Journey of Love, Strength, and Hope

My name is Rodelyn Ybañez, and I am the proud mother of Skyliegh, who is seven years old. My husband and I have three children—two boys and our daughter, Skyliegh.

Our family lives a simple life. My husband works as a farmer, while I work as a Job Order employee for the Local Government Unit (LGU) of Ubay as a Rehabilitation Assistant. Despite the challenges we face, we remain committed to providing the best possible care and support for our children.

The Rewards of Being Skyliegh's Mum

The most rewarding part of my journey as a mother has been watching my daughter grow in her own unique way. Having a child with special needs has taught me patience, unconditional love, and a strength I never knew I possessed.

Every milestone, no matter how small it may seem to others, is a huge victory for our family. Her smile, resilience, and the joy she brings into our lives remind me every day that love has no limits. Skyliegh has made me a stronger, more compassionate person, and I am incredibly proud to be her mum.

The Support That Keeps Us Going

One of the biggest blessings in our journey has been the love and support of our family, along with the guidance of Skyliegh's therapists and teachers. Their encouragement has helped me stay strong and focus on every achievement my daughter reaches.

I am also deeply grateful for the parenting workshops conducted in Ubay. These workshops have provided valuable knowledge and support, helping families like ours navigate the challenges and joys of raising children with special needs.

 

Our Wish for the Future

My wish is not only for my daughter but for all the beneficiaries and families who need ongoing support. I hope that more sponsors will continue to help us access therapy services and maintenance support, making our daily lives a little easier and helping our children reach their full potential.

Celebrating Every Achievement

Today, Skyliegh has gained weight, grown bigger and stronger, and achieved milestones that fill my heart with pride. She can now control her head and communicate with us, which is one of the greatest achievements I could ever hope for as her mother.

These may seem like simple accomplishments to some people, but for our family, they represent years of hard work, dedication, hope, and love.

Dreams and Hopes Ahead

I continue to hope and pray that one day Skyliegh will be able to sit independently and eventually walk.

For my family, I dream of completing the construction of our home, which is still unfinished. We are working on it slowly, step by step, as our resources allow. I also hope that my two sons will successfully finish their education and achieve their own dreams.

No matter what challenges come our way, we will continue moving forward with faith, determination, and hope.

Thank you to everyone who has supported us, especially those who have given us the opportunity to share our story. We are grateful to be able to contribute and tell a small part of our family's journey.

 

Rodelyn Ybañez

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